Unit Plan 32 (Grade K Counselor): Friendship Skills Review

Review Kindergarten friendship skills with kindness, sharing, taking turns, listening, inviting others, and good friend reflection.

Unit Plan 32 (Grade K Counselor): Friendship Skills Review

Focus: Review the friendship skills students have practiced across the year, including kindness, sharing, taking turns, listening, and inviting others to play. The counselor uses a friendship board game, role-play cards, or a class-created “good friend” chart. Students practice naming one friendship skill they want to keep using.

Grade Level: K

Subject Area: School Counseling (Friendship SkillsKindnessListening and Sharing)

Total Unit Duration: 1–2 weeks, 30 minutes per session


I. Introduction

This Kindergarten counseling lesson helps students review the friendship skills they have practiced throughout the year. Students revisit kind words, helpful actions, sharing, taking turns, waiting, listening, responding, and inviting others to play.

The counselor uses a friendship board game, puppet prompts, role-play cards, partner sharing, picture sorting, or a class-created “good friend” chart to help students celebrate what they have learned. Students practice naming one friendship skill they want to keep using in the classroom, at recess, during centers, and with classmates. The goal is for students to leave Kindergarten with simple, practical friendship tools they can use every day.

Essential Questions

  • What does a good friend do?
  • What kind words and actions help friendships?
  • How can students share, take turns, and wait?
  • How can students listen and respond to classmates?
  • What friendship skill do students want to keep using?

II. Objectives and Standards

Learning Objectives — Students will be able to:

  1. Identify friendship skills such as kindness, sharing, taking turns, listening, helping, and inviting others to play.
  2. Practice kind words and friendly actions with classmates.
  3. Practice sharing materials, waiting, and taking turns during a counselor activity.
  4. Practice listening to a classmate and responding in a connected, respectful way.
  5. Recognize how friendship skills help the classroom community feel safe, welcoming, and respectful.
  6. Name one friendship skill they want to keep using.
  7. (Optional Session) Apply friendship review skills through a friendship board game, puppet practice, role-play cards, partner listening, sharing routines, or a reflection page.

Standards Alignment — Grade K (ASCA-based Custom)

  • C:S3.Ka — Practice Kind Words and Actions
    • Use kind words, friendly actions, and helpful behavior with classmates.
    • Example: A student says, “Do you want to play?” or helps a classmate pick up materials.
  • C:S3.Kb — Take Turns and Share
    • Practice taking turns, sharing materials, and waiting during classroom activities.
    • Example: A student waits for a turn with a game piece during a counselor lesson.
  • C:S3.Kc — Listen and Respond to Others
    • Practice listening when someone else is speaking and responding in an appropriate way.
    • Example: A student looks at a classmate during partner sharing and says something connected to what the partner said.

Success Criteria — Student Language

  • I can use kind words.
  • I can do helpful actions.
  • I can share materials.
  • I can wait for my turn.
  • I can listen when someone is talking.
  • I can respond to a classmate.
  • I can name one friendship skill I want to keep using.